Meet Coach J

My Story

I come from a background filled with painful and soul-wounding trauma—from witnessing domestic violence at 4 years old, to being sexually violated at 8, to severe bullying and verbal mistreatment from peers and classmates up until my early adult years. Coping with father wounds and gender dysphoria, I also suffered from extreme low self-esteem, and self hate. I cried at the sight of my reflection in the mirror. I was told I was undesirable, unlovable, and that I was born in the wrong body. I had been publicly humiliated in school and in religious settings, feeling the deep toll that life’s journey can have on a soul. I became so low that I began to beg God to give me the strength to take my own life. I struggled with hopelessness and seeing the value in living anymore. My restless night were filled grappling with my pornography addiction; which only deepened my wounds.Few cared about me as a person; they were only concerned with my gifts and how I could positively impact their business or ministry.

As a result, I became a high-functioning and productive, yet deeply depressed, zombie. On the outside, I appeared to be your average church-going Christian, but on the inside, a whirlwind was raging within my soul. I knew I couldn’t continue to live life this way. In my darkest moments, I cried out to God for a remedy—and it came. Through revelation, and after spending an extensive amount of time in His presence, God began to open my eyes to the true nature of the human condition. He showed me the depth of the soul, how the wellness of our soul affects every part of our lives, and how vital it is to our healing and restoration.

I began to understand that my soul—my whole being—needed healing, not just the parts of me that were visible to the outside world. It wasn’t enough to merely "show up" in life; I needed to address the deep wounds within that had shaped my identity and my experiences. It was through this journey with the Holy Spirit, allowing Him to nurse me back to life, that I began to heal and reclaim my life. No matter what you’ve gone through, I want you to know that your soul—and your life—are redeemable. Jesus’ blood was shed for the complete restoration of your soul, body, and spirit. There is hope. There is healing. And there is redemption.

This journey of healing is why I am passionate about coaching. I now walk alongside others, guiding them into healing and deliverance through a combination of practical and spiritual practices, helping to restore the whole soul. It is my mission to help you understand that no matter your past or present struggles, your soul can be healed and made whole again. There is always hope, and there is always a way forward.

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If you're ready to experience the power of soul restoration, I am here to walk with you. Together, we will uncover the healing that God has for you, and I’ll help you step into a life full of peace, purpose, and wholeness.